I hope you had a great weekend.
In today's email I want share a few of items from the Start-Stop-Continue exercise I've been writing about.
First, I mentioned in the previous email that I stuck my foot in my mouth while doing this exercise. I messed up by bluntly telling Cetelia that I did not want to do anymore dinner dates with her. The reason: I wanted us to do more engaging activities (gun range, archery, dancing, zip lining, etc.).
No matter the reason, she was hurt and felt like I didn't want to spend time with her (Way to go, Kevin!). While it was far from the truth, the damage had already been done. After experiencing some shame due to her feeling fear of me not wanting to spend time with her, we decided to move on from that conversation.
Below I have listed a few items from our joint list. I encourage you to reply and share your list. I'm creating a big list that I'll post for everyone to learn from.
What's on your list? Reply to this message letting me know what you and your mate intend to start, stop, and continue in 2018!
Kevin B. Bullard, Marriage Works! Founder